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In Offering Salvation to Others, Think of them Completely
(Clearwisdom.net) Is there any similarity between our effort to save
people and someone else's effort to save a drowning person?
In Guiding the Voyage, "Teaching the Fa at the Western U.S. Fa
Conference," Teacher said,
Recently, Teacher also said, ("Fa-Lecture at the Conference in
Florida, U.S.A.")
In order to really save people so they won't be eliminated at the end of this
period, we should completely give up our self-interest and think from their
perspective. We should use means understandable and acceptable to them to
clarify the truth with them. Right now, our most fundamental responsibility is
to help people to establish a positive view on Dafa. As for whether he believes in
God and Buddha and whether he changes his bad habits, we don't have to pay too
much attention to these matters. If he listens to us, we should offer some
advice. If he doesn't, we can let him alone for now.
This person may have thought that he could verbally abuse all Falun Gong
practitioners, so he viciously kept on swearing. The practitioner then advised
him, "Such a bad temper is not good for you or others. I told you this for
your own good." A little surprised, the person did not carefully choose his
words and said, "We deserve each other!" meaning that although he is
not that polite, the practitioner was also that way. While still clarifying the
truth to others, the practitioner commented, "Do you mean that a calm
person deserves an angry person?" There was a long silence. Then the person
asked politely, "How old are you?" The fellow practitioner smiled and
answered friendly, "I'm at an age that doesn't get angry easily." By
this time, the other person had automatically changed his opposing views and
approved of the fellow practitioner's kindness and his action of truth
clarification. This is an interesting example.
In addition, if people tell us that we are not kind and gentle enough, then
we should try our best to be kinder and gentler. If we did anything that
deviated from Dafa, then we should apologize and tell people that it was our
personal fault. If we have done all these things to rectify our errors, then
what else can they say? Master pointed out in "How to Provide
Assistance" in Essentials for Further Advancement,
However, any apology must not be made from the perspective of Dafa which owes no apologies
to any one. Also, we should not apologize for our effort in Fa-rectification and
truth-clarification, because what we are doing is out of our most magnificent
compassion. We can say completely from an individual's perspective that, "I'm
only a cultivator, and my xinxing level is still not up to the
requirement of the Fa. I have developed a competitive mentality (or other
attachments), and I feel regret for not cultivating well and not meeting the
requirement of Dafa. At the same time, I would like to apologize to you for the
impurity in my words or mentality. On the other hand, since you have never
cultivated Dafa, you have some misunderstandings. The fact is..."
If we handle the situation this way, what would be everyday people's opinion
of us? They would think, "Look at those Dafa practitioners, they really
have class and manners." This way, we have manifested through ourselves
fine qualities (wisdom and compassion) and tolerance. Their prejudice of Dafa
will dissolve in an atmosphere of pure serenity.
We cannot require everyday people to behave this way or that way simply
because we have learned the profound principles. When talking to people, we
should conform to their situation to the maximum degree and explain Dafa
principles at their levels based on their abilities to comprehend. We should
never be aloof and arrogant, because that can only keep people away from us and
make them miss the opportunity of being saved.
A friend of mine started up a company and he hoped that I could join it. When
our topic turned to Dafa, he suggested that I should look out for my personal
welfare. In his words, "Society is very corrupt, but your individual
efforts will not change anything." I told him, "As the owner of a
company, you would first concern about your long-term interest, and secondly, how to maximize your
profits. You are fully aware that society is degenerating,
and it is in a very dangerous stage. Come to think of it, if the nation is going
to collapse, what is the outlook for your company's long-term interest? It's
true we sacrifice a lot. Your idea of "caring for my personal welfare" means you are going to sit and wait for the outcome. This is similar to the situation where I want to eat the peaches on a tree, I shouldn't
mind the hardship of climbing the tree. If I just lie on the ground and wait for
the peaches to drop, then the ones that eventually drop are already rotten. So, for
the long-term interest of your business, you can't remain indifferent to the
human rights abuses in your country. For your company's long term prosperity,
you must make sacrifices for justice."
Everything was created by the Fa. When clarifying the truth to people, no
matter what subjects keep them interested, we can always start a conversation
from that angle. Based on their xinxing level, we can talk about the Fa
principles manifested at their level so they can accept these principles as
something everyone should follow.
While I was illegally detained, I met a young man around 20 years old. He
told me how he and a girl fell in love. But he had a bad temper. Once he lost
his temper and threw a cup of hot water in her face. The girl left him. He was
bitter and angry. I told him, "You don't really love her. If she were your
true love, you would not hate her simply because she no longer loves you, nor
should you think of revenge. To build a happy relationship, one must give to and
truly care for the other person. ... When you become so broad-minded that you care
for all people, then it is no longer love, it is compassion. Then, you become a
good person to all. This is the requirement for Dafa practitioners, and we are
doing just that." That was the first time we met. Our discussion lasted
until past midnight.
The moral values of those criminal inmates were very low. But whenever I
sensed a slight sign of kindness in them, I always felt deeply touched and
expressed my appreciation to them. One morning the above-mentioned young man
told me, "I saw the Buddha in my dream last night. I thought, Buddha really
exists, I must ask so-and-so (my name) to teach me about Falun Gong."
In reality, we are not only "doing our very best to conform to the
everyday people in our cultivation," (including doing our best to conform
to everyday people in clarifying the truth), and we are not only trying to
safeguard the living environment created by Dafa for everyday people at the
lowest level. What we are doing today is in fact rectifying this environment
under the guidance of the Fa, and creating a new living environment and establishing new
guiding principles for the new humanity.
Posting date: 3/30/2002 |