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We Are Honored to Study the Fa and Practice Cultivation with Children (Part 1)
By a Teacher at New Jersey Minghui School
(Clearwisdom.net)
It is our honor to study Dafa and do cultivation with innocent children
At summer vacation, Minghui School in New York and New Jersey jointly held
two summer camps. While the length was short, the outcome was even better than
expected. Our teachers are now greatly encouraged and more confident for further
development of the Minghui School.
Playing games
The first summer camp had 15 children from ages 5 to 13 years old. The second
time it was held, attendance increased to 27 with a wider age range--from 4 to
15 years old. The age gap, difference in cultivation states (nearly half of the
children had just obtained Fa), and different languages (some only speak
English, some only know Chinese, and some only speak Cantonese) were all
challenges to us. It is also impossible to split them into different classes.
Facing the situation, we discarded many notions such as differences in age,
education, cultivation levels, and lack of experience. We just had faith in
Master and Dafa, and treated every child as our own. We made full use of the
environment. Even though each camp was four days with only two to three teachers
available, we worked very hard for six to seven hours per day, collectively
studying Dafa, practicing the exercises, and sending forth righteous thoughts.
We also paid close attention in leading the children by example; guiding every
thought and every deed with Dafa in our everyday lives. In carrying out the three things that Master asked us to do, we educated the children with the mind of
one integral body. We did as follows:
1. Study the Fa in groups and make full use of the environment
At the first summer camp, we watched the video of Master's lectures twice a
day. For those kids who did not know Chinese, we asked them to read English
Zhuan Falun in groups. Everyday, we recited two poems from Hong Yin.
When the camp concluded, at the end of the four days, most of the children could
recite 7 poems written by Master. Even those children who could not speak
Mandarin could recite the poems. This was really surprising to those parents who
do not practice Falun Gong. From these kids, they saw the supernormal ability of
Dafa!
Two children who originally did not want to attend the Washington DC Fa
Conference had changed their minds and made the trip. They also agreed to
continue to attend the summer camp. As students of Minghui School, they sat in
the front rows and listened to Master's Fa lecture in person. After attending
the Fa conference, one couple suggested that the summer camp could be held at
their home. This rendered great convenience for the lodging of all campers.
We also ran into a problem at the camp. Some children practitioners have
watched Master's video Fa lecture and have read Zhuan Falun thoroughly.
They also attended some Fa Conferences and activities. Yet, they did not behave
like young Dafa practitioners. Some kids even thought that they "knew"
the content of the Fa lecture. So they made noise, got distracted, or fell
asleep while watching the video.
Therefore, we realized that children should be made to understand the
importance of studying the Fa as repeatedly stressed by Master in every Fa
conference. We should remind the children what Master says about the book Zhuan
Falun, "Each reading is different, because it's a book of cultivation.
Contained inside are inner meanings at different levels." ("Lecture at
the Australia Fa Conference;" unofficial translation). We also told them
that Buddhas, Taos, and Gods in heaven also study this book. We even gave
examples of those children practitioners, who want to study Dafa on their own
instead of being told to, even though their parents are arrested or live in
exile.
At the second summer camp, in lieu of language concerns, we showed the
Guangzhou Fa lecture with simultaneous English interpretation. Thus, children
who know Chinese or English could study Fa together. At the beginning, there was
some difficulty. One problem was that some children had a hard time sitting down
because it was their first time listening to the Fa; second, children of ages 4
or 5 years walked around, talked, and did not sit at all. As a result, it was
not quiet. To solve this, we as practitioner teachers first settled down in our
hearts and did not force all the children to sit still. For those who could
listen to the Fa lecture seriously, we smiled at them for encouragement. To
those who could not get settled down, we did not complain, nor become irritated.
We just occasionally pulled them to our side and signaled for them to sit down.
We found that the Fa is very powerful and when we give up the attachment that
wants children to study the Fa our hearts do not become moved and reach the
standard in that environment. More and more, the older kids started to become
stricter with themselves and no longer became influenced by the younger ones;
the older kids started concentrating on the Fa lecture more intently. At the
same time, we also noticed that the two youngest children underwent significant
changes: they quieted down gradually, did not walk, sat down, and finally
listened to the Fa lecture along with the rest of the group. It is really
difficult to imagine that in a short period of several days, about 30 children
of different ages, from different areas, all sat together and studied the Fa
quietly for such a long time. This scene could be seen at schools operated by
Dafa practitioners--Minghui School. This is truly miraculous. We really thank
Master for his blessings!
At the second summer camp, we also integrated studying Dafa with learning
Chinese. In addition to letting children read and recite poems in "Hong
Yin." We also taught the meaning of the Chinese characters in those poems.
We told everyone that Master spreads Dafa and writes books in Chinese. Being
Chinese, we are fortunate. So we hope that they can learn Chinese diligently. We
invited parents with teaching experience. From the poems recited by the
children, we picked up those words and phrases and taught the students with
every word on the blackboard. This way, children not only studied the Fa, but
they also learned Chinese. Beforehand we prepared grid papers and used dotted
lines to write the Chinese characters for "Falun Dafa Hao" and "Zhen
Shan Ren." Children were asked to first follow the dotted lines and then to
practice writing in the blank cells. We also made "Falun Dafa Hao" and
"Zhen Shan Ren" in different styles and let children fill in colors.
Although there were no desks and chairs, all kids worked diligently on the
floor. We taught them hand by hand. Accompanied with beautiful Dafa music, how
wonderful the teaching and learning was! In addition, we arranged classes of
calligraphy and dancing to make the camp more interesting.
2. Leading Children to solve problems according to Dafa
Whenever there was a problem, we immediately convened to discuss and solve
the problem with the teachings of Dafa. For example, one afternoon, three kids
fought over a toy and nobody gave in. Among the three, one girl felt hurt and
cried. Other children commented excitedly and everyone offered his or her
opinion. When we learned of this, we resorted to "Truth Compassion
Tolerance" and helped them to analyze this problem. First we required that
those three children speak the truth, and every one give his or her real account
of the incident. Then, we induced their kindness with "Compassion,"
and told them to be modest and kind toward each other in sharing.
When a conflict happens, we hope they can be tolerant and generous. We also
emphasized the teachings regarding looking inward: "When two people have a
conflict both should look for the causes within themselves, "What problem
do I have here?" Each should search for his own problem. If a third person
witnesses the conflict between the two, I would say that it's not accidental for
this third person to see it, and he should also think it over: "Why did I
see their conflict? Is it because I still have some shortcomings?""
(Lecture at the Western United States Fa Conference in 1999).
After listening to Teacher's Fa teaching, all of the children settled down.
The three kids who all thought they were right lowered their heads and, one by
one, they admitted: "It was my mistake." "At that time, if I did
not insist..." Several children around also recollected some similar things
that happened before and felt sorry for not looking inward, and also for
forgetting to be a Dafa practitioner. With this opportunity, we again told the
children that Teacher says that all practitioners are an integral body and have
come together due to predestined relationships. We should cherish this period of
time, treat each other as brothers and sisters, help each other, and be
benevolent to each other. When doing things, we should think of other people
first and put other people as the first priority, then ourselves. Soon after,
the children made peace and played cheerfully together. In the following days,
this sort of thing never happened again.
There was also a situation in which a child brought cartoon cards with
demon-like figures on them to play with other children. Although we tried to
persuade him many times not to do so, it did not help. Thus, at group
discussion, we told the example that Master mentioned about dolls being sold at
stores: "It used to be that the prettier the toy figurines (the figurines
that children like) in stores were made, the more people liked them. Nowadays,
the prettier they're made, the less people like them. If you make them look like
demons and monsters, or the uglier you make them look, the faster they sell. Why
is it? Nobody asked you to buy them, so why do they sell so quickly? It's
because everyone likes to have them. It means that people's values have become
reversed, and their demon-nature has grown large... Only demons are like this.
Demons are evil, while humans should be good. Good and evil are unmistakably
different.." ("Lecture at the Conference in Europe"1998;
unofficial translation). After listening to this Fa, that child quickly said in
public, "I will discard them right away!" It was also heard that
another child disposed of similar cartoon cards upon returning home.
We find that wasting food is a wide-spread phenomenon among other waste
problems due to comfortable living conditions for children brought up in
America. To deal with this, we educated them that they should maintain the good
virtue of being thrifty according to traditional Chinese values, and also
reminded them to turn off running faucets, and turn off lights when unnecessary.
We also told some examples about Teacher's thriftiness in everyday life. We
adults were led to finishing the children's left-over meals. Interestingly
however, that night, after the teaching, they said that they were hungry and
wanted to eat the left-overs. They indeed devoured all the left-overs in the
refrigerator. We also heard this story: a child previously did not eat left-overs
. Upon her joining the first camp, she did not eat when seeing left-overs at her
grandma's home. Finally, after she stayed with us, a new "to go" box
had to be bought for her. She had completely changed her view regarding eating
left-overs!
One day after the summer camp, a practitioner showed us several new clothes
she had just bought for her child. The child suddenly lowered her head.
Seemingly thinking about something, she said, "Mother, we should be
thrifty." She also said, "I was wrong. Last time I did not eat left-overs
at grandma's home and I should not have asked her to buy a fresh meal. I am
really remorseful. I should have eaten the left-overs." The child's mother
also told us that it is truly something to witness the child's change in mindset
after just a few days at the summer camp.
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