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How I Motivated My Child to Study Dafa
(Clearwisdom.net) After reading the article "How do we think
about our children as Dafa practitioners?" published on the Minghui website
(Chinese edition of Clearwisdom.net) November 21, 2003, I got some pointers on
teaching my child, who is under six, to study Dafa and learn Chinese. What
follows is a summary of my experiences. As soon as my son could speak clearly, I taught him to memorize some of the
poems from Master Li's book Hong Yin, like "New Life" and
"Smile". By the time he was two years old, he could recite many of the
poems. But, when I was illegally sent to a forced labor camp by Jiang's regime,
my son, who was then two years and four months old, gradually forgot what he had
learned. After I was released, I resumed teaching him to study Dafa. On my son's fourth birthday, I wrote out the poems in Teacher's Hong Yin
one by one and stuck them on the wall. Then, I taught my son to memorize and
recite one of the poems every day. Sometimes on his way to and from kindergarten
classes, I asked him to recite Teacher's poems. After he had memorized all of Hong
Yin, I started writing down some of the shorter Dafa articles and asked him
to learn them too. Eventually, he could recite "Lunyu", "For Whom
Do You Exist?" and other articles. Now my son can recite many Dafa
articles, and also reads Zhuan Falun, and has started copying it out by
himself. Although he writes slowly, what he has written down has left him with a
deep impression. Recently, he asked to listen to the Teacher's recorded lectures each evening
before he goes to bed. Children are also here for the purpose of attaining Dafa,
so we should not be confined by our concepts that they are too young to learn
Dafa or understand Dafa. He understands whatever he should know. One time I
asked him, "What's your strongest attachment?" He answered, "It's
the mentality of showing off." He could also point out my attachments, and
can look at himself according to Dafa standards. Of course children are naughty sometimes, so it's the parents' responsibility
to guide them to study Dafa every day. Except for teaching him the principles of
Dafa, I also tell him stories about other cultivators. He especially enjoys
listening to the stories of young practitioners. Sometimes I let him contact
Dafa practitioners to help him be more active in cultivation. One other thing we
should tell our children is: they have been born into Dafa practitioners'
families so they can learn about Falun Dafa, so they should be sure to cherish
it! 12-2-2003 Posting date: 12/14/2003
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