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Cultivate Ourselves in the Midst of Conflicts
By a Dafa practitioner in China
(Clearwisdom.net) One time when a practitioner was in conflict with a
fellow practitioner, a new conflict arose between she and a third practitioner.
She could not bear it any more and came to talk with me. Looking at the surface
it was a cultivation issue. Fundamentally, though, it was the old forces'
interference and sabotage. When a problem arises, the standpoint from which we
deal with it is very important. Disregarding the problem itself, I don't think we need to comment on who's
right and who's wrong, or judge the case as it stands. Nothing (including
conflicts) we encounter in Fa-rectification cultivation is a coincidence. This
is also the old forces' arrangements. The wicked old forces take advantage of
our human attachments to create conflicts. This is another form of old forces'
interference and sabotage, in which they attempt to split us up from the inside.
We need to clearheadedly and rationally recognize this. Who would be happy to
see practitioners stick to their own views and argue in disagreement with one
another? The evil. At critical moments, we should not uphold everyday people's
feelings or a certain mentality; we should instead calm down and measure our
words and actions with the Fa. If we treat the conflicts from the standpoint of
the Fa, we would not blame each other. Master told us, "when conflicts arise between two people and it's seen
by a third person, even the third person should think to himself, 'Oh, they're
having a conflict. Why is it that I was there to see it? Is it because I have
certain attachments? Is it because I have that kind of problem as well?'"
("Lecture at the Australia Fa Conference"(1999)) If that thing
happened to me, was I able to take the Fa as the Master and face it with calm
mind? Maybe my mind would be moved also, or even more than the other
practitioner's. I further looked inward and realized that I, too, have
competition and show-off mentalities, and lack virtues such as modesty.
Sometimes I argue over a petty thing, or even don't let others off when my
opinion turns to be right, all of which are everyday people's postnatal notions
that uphold "self" and "selfishness." We cultivate in a
human society and have various extents of human attachments that have not been
well cultivated. Usually we think that we can let go of all attachments, but
when encountering conflicts, the attachments will be exposed. With different
extents of attachments, we manifest different states of mind. However, as long
as we truly regard the Fa as Master, we will be able to see clearly the essence
of things from the standpoint of the Fa and upgrade ourselves. Of course, when conflicts occur, the people involved feel uncomfortable in
mind and cannot calm down. When our reputation, interests and feelings are
provoked, we feel "bitter." That is the moment that "Cultivating
one's heart is most excruciating." ("Tempering One's Mind and
Heart", Hong Yin), and meanwhile a test of our mind capacity to see
whether we follow Master's teaching to use "tolerance, an extremely immense
tolerance" ("Teaching the Fa at the 2002 Fa Conference in
Philadelphia, U.S.A".) to deal with fellow practitioners and the conflicts
encountered. Recently I read again, "Practicing Cultivation After Retirement".
Master said, "What will you cultivate without any troubles? How can you
improve yourself?" (Essentials for Further Advancement) My heart was
again shaken by Master's words. Conflict may not be a bad thing, it all depends
on what state of mind we use to deal with it and how we cultivate in the midst
of a conflict. In our cultivation, especially in the current Fa-rectification cultivation,
we should be rational, clearheaded and serious in dealing with problems we
encounter. "It is not like that, as it is something beyond the level of
everyday people. You will thus be expected to follow supernormal principles.
What's required of you, then? You must cultivate your inner self and not pursue
things externally." (Zhuan Falun, Lecture One). If we search inward
while facing the conflicts among practitioners, we will find our attachments,
where we fall short, the gap between us and fellow practitioners, and the words
and actions deep in our minds that do not conform to Dafa. In this way we
fundamentally oppose the old forces' arrangements, eliminate interference and
sabotage from the deeply hidden old forces, and rectify everything that is not
righteous. Searching inward when encountering conflicts and cultivate oneself in
the midst of conflicts are the fundamental differences between practitioners and
everyday people, and also a powerful way of eliminating the evil. July 9, 2003 |