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Paying Attention to One's Speech is Paying Attention to One's Heart
Written by a Falun Dafa practitioner
(Clearwisdom.net) Since I learned Falun Dafa I knew that I should pay attention to the
cultivation of speech, but I did not always do well. Another practitioner told
me that cultivating speech is like cultivating the heart. To me this made a lot
of sense. How well you cultivate your heart is not seen by others, but whether
you mind your speech well or not can be seen by everyone and may also create
negative effects to the environment. I realized that I was cultivating neither
my speech, nor my heart, very well. On one occasion I visited one of my relatives. He was having his home
renovated. My relative commented that the workers were too slow. I responded
without thinking, "If they work slowly they can get more money." My relative
then went right down and scolded the workers, which gave me no chance to make up
for my thoughtless comment. I often notice that once the words are released from my mouth, it is very
difficult to take them back. Although I say things without intention, an
ordinary person still listens very closely. Therefore, minding our speech is
very difficult. One day during studying, I was struck by Teacher's words, "You
know, Buddhas don't speak frivolously." (Zhuan Falun). I suddenly
realized that as a cultivator I should not confuse myself with an everyday
person and talk without purpose. If it is unnecessary to discuss something, then
I should try to talk less. If I talk too much, it may bring additional troubles
to ourselves and others. When some practitioners in my area talked to others who had detoured and did
things that practitioners should not do, their language was sharp and
intolerant. In some cases, later, the practitioner who spoke sharply did not do
as well as the person he ridiculed. When we do not take responsibility for our
words and our behavior, first we hurt others, and eventually we harm ourselves.
We all have the predestined relationship to be born during this period of
Teacher's Fa rectification. We should treasure this precious predestined
relationship by helping each other and making up for our collective shortcomings
by learning from each others' strong points. Is it possible for anyone to not
make a mistake? How could we feel such distaste toward fellow practitioners?
What possible reason do we have to complain when we are before living beings?
The mouth of the human being is the door that will measure whether the result
will be fortune or misfortune. The tongue is a sword, which can destroy demons
and eliminate evil. We should use our mouths to introduce the principles of
Falun Dafa [Fa]to more people, which is showing mercy and benevolence to
people. On the path of cultivation practice, every practitioner has his or her own
difficulties and confusion. We cannot pass every test easily. Sometimes it is
necessary to stop and consider what we have been doing. This is the time to calm
down and use the Fa to judge whether the path we have walked is righteous or
not, and what we have done is correct or not. From a small mistake we need to
get better at realizing the truth and solving the root problem. In this way we
will correct ourselves thoroughly and become cultivators who are truly admired
by gods and by all living beings. It is the same for clarifying the truth. Not only we should pay great
attention to the quantity, but we must pay greater attention to the quality and
to the effect. For practitioners who stepped out later and who have a heavy
attachment of fear, do not hold onto the fear of falling behind or not reaching
consummation. We must know that to do the most sacred things in the universe
while holding on to dirty human attachments is a blasphemy to gods. It is also
being irresponsible to ourselves and to others. We should use our pure hearts to
do everything that we should do--even small things--and do them well. If you
feel it is difficult to clarify the truth directly to others, then you may send
forth righteous thoughts more and consider how to use an alternate method to let
others know that Dafa is good. So long as you have Teacher and Fa in your heart,
there are always things you can do, and do well. Believe it! As long as you are
studying, cultivating and looking inside, you are improving. Gain naturally
without pursuit is what I have learned. |