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Traditional Culture: The Proper Way to Sit in Ancient China
(Clearwisdom.net) Ancient Chinese people emphasized how to sit
properly because it is an important part of good manners. There were three main
postures before chairs were commonly used. The Fu position was sitting
cross-legged. Similar to the lotus position in Buddhism, it is also called Jiafu.
In the Qiju position both legs extend straight forward in front of the body like
a dustpan. The Ji posture requires sitting on one's knees with the buttocks
resting on one's lower legs and feet. When there were no guests present, people
could sit casually in the Fu and Qiju positions, but if one was talking to a
respected older person, talking to friends, talking about important issues,
eating at dinner parties or banquets, or treating guests, one had to use the Ji
posture. Many records in ancient Chinese teachings mention sitting positions. In the
Xihan Dynasty (207 B.C. to 25 A.D.), the two noblemen Song Zhong and Jia Yi were
listening to a prophet explaining his prophecies. He was very knowledgeable,
talked about things very rationally and convincingly, and made these two
noblemen instantly feel respect. They immediately straightened their clothes and
sat up straight to pay their respect to this prophet. In Chinese history, the emperor and his helpers were all very careful to pay
attention to their virtue and manners. Even in daily life they had to discipline
their own words and actions. Mr. Tao Kan, a famous courtier during the Dongjin
Dynasty (317-420), followed the principle of "Even when it is leisure time,
still sit straight." Mr. Sima Guang (1019-1086) during the Song Dynasty
(960-1279) always sat straight with a solemn altitude in his daily routine. The
great Emperor Kangxi (1654-1722) in the Qing Dynasty (1636-1912) was good both
at managing the country and fighting on the battlefields. He was very grand, and
he always sat on the dragon throne very straight, looking down at sentient
beings. He had cultivated this strict style for a long time. He recalled his
childhood by saying, "Eating, moving, and speaking were all regulated.
Although I always lived alone, I still dared not to go overboard." After he
became the Emperor, he always sat straight in discussions with his courtiers,
when studying in the palace study, and even while chatting and laughing with his
family. His manner was established in early childhood, and he observed strict
self-discipline during his daily life. |